There are many people who care less about us. There are many people who have said something bad against us which led to our downfall. There are times we’ll need someone to share our sad times with but eventually we have no one with us.

There are days I wept and cried because no one felt my feelings. No one cared. Then, I discovered that I’m responsible for my happiness. I need to change the way I think and start to depend on God rather men. 

I decided that I’ll help people and encourage them. I wanted to change my world. Then, I decided to reach out to people and touch lives. I knew there are many people in my state who need help. It’s not necessarily money, our words can actually change the world. Then, I created a Facebook page named IMPACT WORDS. You can like and follow the page through this link or follow my Facebook

So, why are we in this world?

We are not here for pleasure alone. We are here to touch lives and give hope to the hopeless. We are here to reach out to people and make impact in their live.

We are here to give joy and not sorrow. We are here to strengthen and not weaken.

We are are here to love and not hate.

We are in this world to change our world.

Let your words heal people and not kill them. Go out and change your world by speaking positive to someone who’s negative. Your words can change your world.

For us to change our world, we need to change our words“.

            O. Timmy Paul.

Touching Lives

Do you ever know what it means to touch lives? Has anyone ever touched your life in one way or the other? Are you looking for a way to touch the lives of people positively? If yes, I’m sure this is for you. You have to read this till end without distractions. Will you?

I once lived a dog life. For many years, I was backing the wrong horse. I keep seeing myself as useful as chocolate teapot. That is, as someone who’s useless. I’d no plans for the future and all I see was a vague image. Yeah, I was living but terrified because I know my future isn’t bright. Failure sets in here. Inferiority comes in here. I called those years “wasteful years”.

But I discovered those years weren’t wasteful, they were only building me. Thanks to God most high. 

And here’s where I’m going. I discovered myself through Mr Mark Zuckerberg of Facebook. Maybe he doesn’t believe in God but he actually made me believe in myself. I started writing and from there I began to have a clearer future. I got something passionate. 

These points are for you if you want to touch lives;

1. Discover your purpose: I’d never met Mr Mark but he has made impact in my life. When you discover your purpose, you’ll touch lives than you know. Mr Mark is not aware of what he has done for me. God created everyone of us to make impacts and we don’t need to become famous before we know that. There are so many people who term success as being rich, wealthy, famous etc. No, that’s not necessarily success. There are so many wealthy people who haven’t discovered their purpose. 

If all you love doing is teaching pupils in nursery schools, it’s fine. You’ve discovered something you love doing. Go on and it’s not necessary you are celebrated by the world. You don’t have to see yourself on TV, or see your name in guinness book of records, or win Nobel prize, or have many followers on Facebook. No! There’s no point hoping to become someone else when you know you can’t be like him. You know, a watched pot never boils. Don’t hope in vain.

2Move On: I was dead in the water because I was unable to get into Tertiary institution of my choice. After the failure to make it to school, depression was just another nail in my coffin. But one day, I met many of my high school mates and they told me they wish they were me who spent days at home building the future. They said if they have the opportunity again, they would spend some years at home like me so as to build their lives. I was motivated and I thought, “this is a blessing in disguise”. It doesn’t matter what yesterday says, hey, move on. It doesn’t matter the names they call you, move on. It doesn’t matter your past, move on. Keep moving and those difficult times would be motivational stories for some people. Hence, you’re touching their lives. 

If you fail to move on, you’ve succeeded in stopping some people in moving to. And this means you can’t touch lives positively.

3. Do not bother what people say: maybe you’ve been told you have nothing to give. Listen, do not argue, do not bother, you only have to see yourself doing the best things you can do. You have to see the best in you and it’s not necessary if others see that in you. For you to touch lives, you have to put deaf ears to what negative people say.

Do not bother what people say, God already says the best to you. He said, “you’re my sons and daughters….I love you.”

4. Work On Yourself: if you’re to make an impact in your world you have to work on yourself. Work on yourself privately and your works and impacts will touch people publicly. It’s best to keep preparing for the future than the future to come and you start preparing. Be prepared Because a better day is coming. 

You have to work on yourself for you to work on others. 

5.Put God First: Yeah, without putting God first, we can achieve many things. But what’s the essence of life without having the giver of life? What’s life if you refuse to do the Lord’s will? It’s vanity. 

Having God will make us understand why we were created. There are many people who shouldn’t be doctors but fashion designers. But because they’re getting well paid, they think that’s God’s plan for them. God might want you to work in a small company just for His glory. It’s necessary to know God’s will. And God will direct our paths on how to touch different lives.

Your works are vain if you work for man but refuse to work for God and with God.

Touching lives is all about God touching you first.

Make use of those points and you’ll see a great you.

Will you like to add another point? You are free to write that in the comment. 

Impact words.

You are blessed

Take a moment, think about who you are and not who you think you should be.

Think about what you have and not what you think you should have.

Think about what you’ve achieved and not things you think you should have achieved.

Count your blessings and name them. You’ll realise how blessed you are.

You’ve been given the gift of life, use it well.
Take a moment and thank the lord for his blessings upon you because  you are blessed.

Impact Words.


Have you ever been to a library without having any special book in mind to read? Of course I’ve been to a library unprepared. 

Funny enough, when you get to the books stand or shelve you’ll see different enticing books with great titles,topics and contents smiling and looking at you and shouting,”pick and read me“. Confusion starts here and you won’t actually know the perfect one to read. That’s definitely a time waster because you might have spent about 30minutes still unable to decide the book or books to pick. 30 minutes of your limited time is gone without any achievement. If perhaps, you made a decision, you might pick at least 3 books out of 10 that you liked. After reading like 10 pages of one, you jump to another looking for satisfaction. This goes on and on and you’ll find out you didn’t finish any of those books picked. Why? You didn’t prepare and decide and that led to time wastage and unsatisfactory. 

Also, a professional football team will never play a match without preparing. There’s probability that they won’t win but at least the preparation will boost their confidence.

This goes with life. For you to get something here, you have to be prepared. You have to be prepared there before coming here. You can’t be here and tell me you’ll start preparation. No! That will lead to frustration and frustration can lead to failure. Failure can also lead to suicide. We all know suicide is Death!
However, I have never seen any successful person in the history of the world who ever completely prepared. Maybe there is but I haven’t seen nor heard. To me, nobody ever did that and neither will you. You can prepare for the next 10 years and you’ll still not feel ready. This means that the best time to start is NOW!

But a big problem with a lot of people is that they do either one of two things when starting something great in life.

Firstly, they don’t take the time to properly prepare and just rush to start….which is a great mistake.

Secondly, they actually take so much time preparing to prepare that they never ever get started…..which is another great mistake.
Hint: don’t do either.

Instead,research first and then be impulsive.

Make enough preparations and get started but don’t prepare too much that You will never get started“. 

          O.Timmy Paul.

The only way you will keep going is by ensuring you’re preparing, growing and developing.

Don’t stay somewhere for too long without any necessary contribution to your growth. 
Prepare well and you’ll keep soaring high.

you fail to prepare, you prepare to fail.

The time to prepare is NOW!

The time to start is NOW!

Stay blessed in Christ!

Don’t just judge.

A lady from Australia once said to me,” I never met a faithful and honest  man from Africa. To be honest, you’re the first I’ll be meeting”. 

I was shocked and sad but I replied,” You haven’t seen because you have a different and contaminated belief. A bad orange in a basket doesn’t mean every other oranges in the basket are bad”.

I met an American on Facebook and I asked how she sees Nigeria and Africa at large. She also gave a shocking reply. She said,” I have been seeing from the news that Africa is poor. They lack many social amenities and it’s like an underworld”. When we chatted for a while and asked me some questions which I answered correctly. She was amazed because she thought I will never try to attempt her question let alone give a correct answer.. She thought we don’t have cars, good food, electricity supply, internet connection (also surprised I was on Facebook).

She said we are poor. And I replied,” America too has many poor men and women with their children loitering on streets. America has beggars who have no house to sleep than the road sides. We have poor people in Africa like we have in other continents”.

Someone said,” I will never marry again”. I was worried and wondering. He said this because a lady broke his heart.
Another person said,” I will never let my daughter marry a pastor”. I was worried and wondering. She said this because a pastor raped her.
Some white men see the Blacks as fraudsters. Some see us as unintelligent. Some see Africa as the continent that has the most stupid people. How true is this? 

We’ve been seeing and hearing this,”do not judge a book by its cover”. Many still don’t understand that. Many people have different poor and bad dispositions and sure they have reasons for their manner of thought. But don’t you think everyone ain’t same? Even twins will always have different lifestyles.
If things are getting bad, try make them good. Be the change we need in this perversed generation. Make a positive impact and let people see that everyone ain’t stupid.
Instead of saying bad things against yourself, family, country, continent etc, you can make a great impact by turning that negative thought into something positive and something worth it.
Please, don’t ever judge people because of their race, skin colour, religion or other differences. Your dispositions might be wrong.
We are different.We are not the same.You’re wrong if you think we are all same.
A bad Timmy doesn’t make every Timmys bad. A good Timmy doesn’t make every Timmys good.

Women are strong

A woman will miss you and still act like she doesn’t care.
You’ll offend a woman and she’ll still be the one looking for a way to beg you.
A woman will tell you, “no food for you”. Anyways, she already cooked but kept it inside the toilet😂😂😂. Clean toilet though ( no germs).
A woman will call you “ugly” but she’ll keep thanking God for giving her such a handsome husband.
A woman will tell you, “go to hell” and secretly, she’ll be praying you make heaven.
A woman will call you “useless” at home but will tell others how useful you are.
A woman will smile just to see you smile but inwardly she’s frowning.
A woman will act like she puts poison in your food but in the real sense she never thought of that.
A woman will tell you how poor you are but she’ll always look for a way to make you rich.
A woman will fight you inside but make sure no one fights you outside.
Go to your mum,tell her you love her.

Go to your wife, buy her a nice gift. Go to the kitchen and cook her best meal.

Give your girl bestie a surprise call and make her laugh.

Plan the future with your fiancée.

And you’ll see how they’ll receive you.
Women are to motivate, be it their negative attitudes or positive ones.

Women are treasure. Be it your mum,wife, fiancée, sister, aunty or best friend. They’re strong and caring. I mean the real and good women.

Women are not always what we think they are. They’re not always what they say or act they’re. Real woman is inside of a woman.
Treat your woman like she’s all you’ve got in this world and you’ll see the real beautiful woman in her. Show some love.

Let’s come together as one

Change in the world requires changing the world. Changing the world requires great people like us. 
We have different dreams. But when we come together as one, our dreams become one. That is, CHANGING OUR WORLD. 
It has been a question I’ve been asking myself, “will the world get better or get worse?” Also, “can we actually change our world?” Maybe if the world wouldn’t get better, I’ll have to. I’ll have to try and get things done. Even if the stains on my white T-shirt won’t be removed I’ll try wash and see if it can. 
One thing we have to understand is that if we are heavenly minded and earthly useless, we are nobody. The journey to heaven starts from earth. Many of us care less about the world we are…. We are too selfish, trying to get to heaven and leaving our brothers and sisters behind. It’s our obligation to reach out to others and change our world. It’s our duty getting things done and saving souls from destructions.
What are you busy doing on mountains? Asking for power? Looking for miraculous power? Wanting fame? Isn’t that selfishness? Where are you going to use your power? Is it not on earth? But you said you have nothing to do with the world.
If we refuse to make a change today, our children will suffer in pains. Our world will be in chaos and war. Tribulations will make many lose focus on eternity. Trials will set us apart from good. Regret will fill our mouths and we’ll always ask ourselves how we spent our youthful life.
Let’s come together and stop poverty.

Let’s come together and stop racial abuses, colour discrimination, religious vices etc.

Let’s come together and stop kidnappings, sexual abuses, human trafficking, drug trafficking,prostitution,cultism and other social vices.

Let’s come together and stop corruption. 

Let’s come together and be heavenly minded and same time earthly useful.

Let’s come together in love,peace and harmony.

Let’s come together as one in this world. After all the world is one.
Do you think it’s impossible? Well things are always impossible until we try them.
Let’s come together to bring about the desired change.
Let’s come together as one.

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